29 Stupid Things White People Do and What We Can Do Instead
Call a Black person āarticulate.ā Instead: Because of a long history of oppression, degradation, and dismissal of the talent and skills of Black people, understand that such a statement coming from a white person is often construed, and meant, as meaning āarticulate-nessā is something unusual in a Black person. Say āone of my best friends is [black, Latino, person of color, etc.].ā Instead: Ask yourself first: Do you know where that person shops for groceries? Where they go to church? Where they get their hair cut? What their childrenās/granchildrenās names are? Have you ever been to their home? These are the things you know about a best friend. Say that the success of [Oprah, Bill Cosby, Michael Jordan, etc.] show that thereās no longer any racism. Instead: Ask yourself about Madame CJ Walker. She was a millionaire, the first black millionaire, in the early part of the 20th century. Lynchings were still going on. No one would say ...