BITTER WOMAN SYNDROME

I love women. I have three beautiful sisters and a wonderful mother whom I love dearly. And they have taught me the difference between a confident, caring, spiritually connected woman and women who have been victimized by their own self-pity to the point they truly believe their own lies. These women form a cult-like following with other women who share the same immoral and anti-Christ values. They turn the truth around and bend the truth like their father, the devil... and destroy the basic foundation of the family. We all know the devil comes to kill, steal and destroy. Why then, do you think the Bitter Woman can be directly linked to the murders committed by their teenage sons who grew up in a fatherless home or around men who sold drugs and used their mother's house as a stash house and a meeting place for drug sales?

Who's at fault for our children being sent to foster homes and given up for adoption simply because she believes "that nigger don't care?" The BITTER WOMAN. Listen, the world is not interested in past problems with relationships long over with. The world believes in the strength and RESILIANCE of a woman. The two most important personality traits that got us past 500 years of slavery. But we have lost it to materialism, sadomasochism and the all-new 'bi-curiosity.' The BITTER WOMAN claims to HATE men, but is being ran up in by a new man every weekend... probably being ran through as you read this factoid. Hell no, I will NOT stop talking about what has been one of the SECOND leading cause of divorce, teen death, STD's, and overall family and community BREAKDOWN.

Yes, there are some sorry men out there who refuse to be a part of their children's lives. But then there are men who have been dragged through the courts and jail houses on trumped-up charges and who have been so intimidated by the presence of police over the most simple of matters that they give up asserting their rights and lose focus on being a parent for their children. They run out of money and resources and are not well versed with the civil procedure of probate court. Men have been so used to being profiled by police that they truly believe an allegation will be treated as a fact of law, and feel guilty even when they KNOW they're innocent.

Face it. After 500 years of witnessing how the slave masters and their overseers whipped black men to show the community who's boss, do you think it's a coincidence that the BITTER WOMAN would use and abuse the 209A and false claims of abuse to 'show who's boss?' If you are reading this and say there is no truth to it, you really ought to stop and think. Write down some names of friends or family members and jot down some of the things they have done to abuse their ex with the law or even the classic set up of a showdown between the child's father and the new man. Little does the BITTER WOMAN know... and as a matter of fact, she DOES know... HE DOES NOT WANT YOU AND IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU!

Flash-forward to a hair salon full of baldheads waiting for weaves or nappy heads waiting to be pressed flat... look around. Someone is bragging about how they 'got him good' with some form of get-back for absolutely NO reason other than a made-up belief that he's out to harm or 'still wants to be with me.' You know how the Bible says beware of false prophets? If a woman is constantly saying she's being harassed by her ex and a few months, weeks and years later you witness nothing at all - it's time to be a sister to the BITTER WOMAN and TELL her she's caught up in a hype and that she is plain old BITTER. Careful, you might lose a friend. But maybe it's time to change your friends, anyway.

THE DISEASE IS CONTAGIOUS!

You may not know it, but the BITTER WOMAN SYNDROME is CONTAGIOUS! It's a known fact that if you are hanging around the BITTER WOMAN and force fed her constant barrage of falsehoods, you gradually begin to get sucked into her world of lies. You begin to ask yourself: "What if he DID speed-dial her 83 times while she was at work?" But here's what you need to look at. Take a close look at how she treats her family... not her friends... her FAMILY. Does she spend the same kind of money on her family and her sisters as she does for her girlfriends? Does she seem to be more of a 'sister' to outsiders more so than her girlfriends? The BITTER WOMAN cannot HOLD 'family love' inside of her. She is afraid the world is out to get her, so she BUYS her friends' love instead. As long as she can take you to a brunch or buy you a gift here or there, she has a control of the relationship. As long as she has as much dirt on you as you have on her, she has some control over you. And sooner or later, even if you DO witness some wrongdoing on her behalf... you'll look the other way.

The BITTER WOMAN SYNDROME has touched so many women that they actually think every man is the same, but will NOT recognize their own pattern of CHOOSING men who:

1 - Do NOT want to have children and raise a family
2 - Do NOT have a healthy, productive relationship with their mother
3 - Has a drug habit or needs to 'get high' before having sex
4 - Gets paid illegally
5 - Is openly disrespectful and overly flirtatious with other women in front of you

There are so many other warning signs that the BITTER WOMAN refuses to notice, and because most BITTER WOMEN believe their bodies are made of platinum, they NEED a man around for physical comfort. While they're in search of 'a REAL man', the BITTER WOMAN uses the in-and-out brothers as toys. Just a little physical something to keep them satisfied physically. Which brings us to another strange ritual of the BITTER WOMAN... ANGRY SEX. Why is it that BITTER WOMEN love to cause a problem in their relationship only to make up with 'angry sex?' And jump on the phone to brag about a physical conquest as a way of - once again - showing her control. I'm sorry that you may be bit concerned by these words, but 20 years of murder in the streets by the sons of women who claim they have a handle on these children is enough.

This time, you are hearing it from a man. Not Steve Harvey. ACT LIKE A WOMAN... and dammit THINK LIKE A WOMAN. I don't care HOW many books you read that have attempted to soften the blow. You have daughters, young sisters and more who are looking up to you. Seems you are preparing for them to walk down the aisle with a WOMAN more so than a man. The BITTER WOMAN SYNDROME needs to be addressed and DEALT with. Though I respect your comments, I will not budge on these FACTS about a syndrome that has helped sorry men DESTROY our community. Recognize it and call your sister out on it. This is the ONLY way we will progress. And BELIEVE that I will hold my brothers accountable for their actions as well. Lets reconstruct the black family... NOW!

'Don't SPEAK about it...BE about it'